I am a gay man with a long-term partner. He recently moved away so we are currently in a long-distance relationship. We have mostly good sex when we are together, although my sex drive is normally higher than his. When I am alone, with little to do, I become bored and instantly think of masturbating. I have gone some months without it before but always come back to it; I feel a bit addicted.
'My son is masturbating to gay porn'
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I have been comforting and supportive, saying he must have found this very confusing and it doesn't necessarily mean he is gay etc … but in truth I am knotted up inside, as like all parents I have hopes and visions for my children, and this was never on the agenda. He attends an all-boys school, rarely has the chance to socialise with girls and lives with his mum and two sisters I have left the family home. Should I tell his mum? Should I block the porn sites? When leaving a message on this page, please be sensitive to the fact that you are responding to a real person in the grip of a real-life dilemma, who wrote to Private Lives asking for help, and may well view your comments here.
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